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Hello World I am a bisexual submissive, but I live my life in a vanilla relationship. I didn’t discover I was sexually submissive until last year; I made a 180 degree change, instead of continuing to feel guilt over a rape that occurred 20 years ago, I decided to embrace my sexuality. The only problem with my new found love of sex, I am married to the most non-dominant man I know. He also happens to be one of the most caring and loving men that I know, so I have to find ways to feed my need for kink that won’t hurt him. This blog will follow me along the journey; are you up for the ride? 😉
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A Pansexual Babygirl Submissive Living in a Vanilla World 
Wishing you all the best of luck with the changes you are making in your life.
Stay safe!
A
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Thank you 🙂
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And married Damm
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Lol, although it feels like more
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Lol, although it feels like more of a roommate situation at times 😦
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so fix it
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I’ve tried, I’ve done absolutely everything I can think of….even my therapist said there’s nothing else that I can do. When someone point blank tells you that you’re not a priority, and won’t be for at least the next year, then goes on to tell you that is just the sacrifice you have to make…..sometimes you just say fuck it.
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well leave I know that sounds cold but sometimes it is best
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If I were able to make it financially (and I’m talking basic needs, not luxury), then I would probably be gone….but also, this is the only person that I’ve been with since I was 19
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Girl, that sucks. I freak out when our D/s wanes a bit, even though it always waxes again. I cannot imagine living life with this need, and not being able to fulfill it…
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I finally asked him not to do any of it…I can’t submit to him
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It’s either there or it isn’t. 😦
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So, I have a Dom that I talk to online & via phone…..
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